"Don't drop your lessons to the ground, they contain your blessings."
Stay encouraged! Situations don't happen "to" us they happen "For" us, especially when the aim is for advancement, and the motion is for growth, or positive achievement, but if we don't respect the lesson or even realize where we fall. We will have to go through the same thing again...and again.
Search out and determine the exact place where wisdom was dropped, where obedience and discipline were ignored. It is only then when you can pick them up again. Seek out wisdom in all things, it is the way of excellency. All things work together for good to those who love God and are called according to His purpose. We were made to thrive. If you go through it, make sure you grow through it. Let the lesson be a blessing.